Do something special for an older Friend or Loved one this Valentines Day
After Louise McMillan lost her husband six years ago, Valentine’s Day has become bittersweet. A spritely octogenarian, she fondly recalls the fragrance of the roses and taste of the French chocolates her beloved husband would bring her each year. When she thinks back on all of the romantic Valentine’s Day dinners she’d cook for him and how he’d always pretend to be surprised, a smile comes across her face. Louise cherishes those memories. But the loss of the love of her life now makes St. Valentine’s Day quite difficult.
We all know someone like Louise. While you are planning a nice romantic Valentine’s Day with your sweetheart, why not also brighten the day of an elderly relative or friend? Take them out to lunch or spend the afternoon watching a classic romantic film they might enjoy. If you can’t be there in person, even a note or a phone call can show someone how much they mean to you. A simple, heartfelt gift of time might be just the thing to bring a bit of joy to someone.
The holiday celebration of love takes place during one of the coldest months of the year. While those of us who enjoy being outdoors in winter weather have it made, older folks oftentimes find it difficult to get around. Streets and sidewalks can be slick and dangerous. Not being able to get outside, for even a simple chore such as a trip to buy groceries, can be a problem for them. While you are out running errands, why not take an older relative or friend with you? Whether it be a ride to the store or shoveling a sidewalk, your time and help will be greatly appreciated. Do you have an elderly neighbor you don’t know? Why not reach out and get to know them? You don’t need to become “besties.” But they will be more likely to help you or ask for help during an emergency if you aren’t strangers.
Most of us, older adults included, prefer to live in their own homes. But being alone is not always ideal. If your mom or dad is living by themselves, consider giving them a medical alert system for Valentine’s Day. Medical alert systems will get immediate help and notify your family members in the event of an emergency. The peace of mind these systems bring is a gift to both you and your parent.
Delco Alarm Systems can help you choose the right system for your individual needs. They will also teach you and your parents how to use the system or device you have chosen. We are available 24/7 to answer any questions you may have.
Valentine’s Day can be lonely for seniors, especially if they are widowed or live alone. Share the love this Valentine’s Day by thinking of your older friends and relatives.